Sometimes a conflict
arises between the two members of the team and other team members or leaders
are unable to resolve this issue. Whenever a situation arises between two
parties which needs outside help, a third person may be required to resolve the
issues among them. The outsider who resolves the issue between two people is
called a mediator. There are in house mediators as well as the professional
mediators. Companies usually have trained some of their staff members to play
the role of mediators. But there are times when conflict is f ethical or legal
kind, in such cases companies should hire some professional mediator who may be
from outside the company. Leaders are usually afraid of hiring outside aid
because they think that it will make their company look weak. However, the
truth is quite opposite. Professional mediator may save them from the legal
issues that may arise if the conflict between members of the team is not
settled down.
Another way of mediation
is to arrange the mediation courses. In these courses people of the companies
are taught how to embrace the different behaviors of their people. Different
people are brought up in different environments which led to their different
ideologies .They are unaware of the fact that there is not only one solution to
a question or one way to handle a situation but different ways are possible.
These sessions teach them different behaviors of people and how to handle those
behaviors.
For example, consider a
meeting which is arranged by a company with delegates. Two people of the
company have to host this meeting, supposedly Jim and Jacob. Jim arrives
fifteen minutes before the actual meeting time and feels agitated that why is
Jacob late. Whereas, Jacob arrives five minutes late and makes apology for his
late arrival. In this situation Jim is an early comer and wants everybody to be
on time while Jacob does not mind to arrive late as long a no problems arise.
This is an example of different behaviors. People can only learn that having
different behavior is normal if they are told that this is normal and not all
people are alike. (Jikstra, Beersma, & Evers,
2011)
References of Mediation and mediation sessions of Conflict Resolution Strategies:
Dreu, Carsten K. W. De, Arne Evers, Bianca Beersma,
and Esther S. Kluwer. 2001. "A theory‐based measure of conflict
management strategies in the workplace." Journal of organizational
behavior 645-668.
JayHarolds, and Beverly P.Wood. 2006. "Conflict
Management and Resolution." Journal of the American College of
Radiology 200-206.
Jikstra, Maria D. M., Bianca Beersma, and Arne
Evers. 2011. "Reducing conflict-related employee strain: The benefits of
an internal locus of control and a problem-solving conflict management
strategy." An International Journal of Work, Health &
Organisations 167-184.