Essay on The Moments When I Feel Discouraged

There are many moments when I fell discouraged by certain things that people said to me in different ways in different in different levels of the life. It was my first day at university, I was very shy and nervous that how will be the life of the university and how will I manage to get the best possible outcomes and results while studying in the University and how will I be able to cope up with this new studying methods because it was a totally different atmosphere from school and I was thinking about what kind of friends I will make in the university and how will I spend my university life in the next few years, there were so many mixed thoughts that I have in my mind at the first day of the university.

But I am introvert person, I am not much social and have my own personal spaces. I set up in a place after a long time, it takes a lot of time for me to settle down in a new environment, with new people and in a new atmosphere. So, I went into the class there were many students sitting, chatting with each other, I just went to a vacant seat and sit there quietly observing the students in the class and the atmosphere. Days passed and still I am alone with myself just attending the lectures quietly, but because I am a quiet and shy person, the students started making fun of my this personality and talk about me a lot, that she has an attitude, she is not capable enough to get in this university, so is not ompetent enough to study these tough subjects.

 I have to listen a lot of things due to my personality and this makes me feel discourage, I was one of the toppers in my school, but all these things discourage me and I stated to fall in average students in the class, this discouragement leads to depression and I started to fall in the list of the below average student, these  discouraging words have  a really bad impact on my personality as well as on my academics, I have loose focus on my studies, avoid to take the lectures, I stopped studying for some days, I was going through the worst days of my life. Whenever I go the University, students push me in wrong activities that re unethical, they want me to be the part of the unethical activities. I was very disturbed during my college life and this affected my academics and my result and I got the lowest marks in my class. Do discouraging words sometimes affect you a lot and destroy your career as well.

Same condition appears when I went for interview in school for a job. The principal took an interview and he was very much pleased with my interview and my future thoughts what I aim to do in future. Then I was hired and next day it was my first day at the job, I was very much passionate and excited to teach the students and create a bond with the students. I took the first class and take an introduction of the students. The students was very curious and wanted to ask certain questions about me and my academics and personal life, I had very good time with the students in the class, some days passed and he students which I was teaching become very comfortable with me and we had developed a great bonding with each other, the students started to write suggestion to the principal that they want me as a class teacher, the principal called me in the office and asked certain questions to me, she was very much curious that how can I develop such a bonding with the students in such a short time, she had developed some personal issues with me and eventually she started to point out my small mistakes and started degrading me and discouraging me in front of my students and other teachers in the school.

She started to discourage me by saying we have more competent teachers than you and can we can hire more capable teachers than you if you do not work properly in the school. The point out my every small mistake and started pushing me out of my boundaries. I started to feel very discourage and low, and again I was facing the same challenge which I faced in the university time. This was a very tough situation for me to handle this discouraging attitude from the principal and this pushes me towards the phase of depression once again, I started to feel less competent and useless and I started to feel like that I was not suitable for this position, my performance in the school started to decrease and I was not performing well in the school. Then after so much stress and depression I quit the job and does not feel to join a job again, I lose my confidence and does not want to join any job further, this was the worst period of my love because this was my developing stage and I want to be successful in life. But these discouraging words affected my personality a lot. This was a lot more difficult for me to survive in these conditions.

So these discouraging words affected my life in a really bad way and these discouraging words can affect anyone’s life, so we should gather courage and discover our personality, improve our personality and be a strong person to cope up with the negative people in this world. Believe in yourself and believe that you can do anything in the world. This has a bad effect on my life and now decided to be a stronger person in life. People are jealous of your success and struggles and they become a hurdle between your successes. But you just have to belief in yourself and your personality and know what you can do and what you can achieve in your life. You should develop an internal focus and focus on yourself and your personality, this will enhance your personality and you can achieve your goals.

You should stick to your vision and goals, stop comparing yourself with other people in your life, this will also make you feel less competent than others. As well as detach yourself with the negative people they will destroy your piece of mind and will discourage you in different fields of life. Consider the people with whom you are spending time, because people with positive attitude will bring positivity in your life and you will be encouraged more to do some tasks and take some steps beyond the boundaries. Just improve our skills and get an experience regarding your subject, you should be an expert in your subject, then no one can discourage you and you will have a more broader and wide perception of the world and you can give the best possible outcomes and results and no one can stop you from being successful and being the most encourage person in life and in other fields of work.