Book: When
Mr. Pirzada Came To Dine
Every story has its own themes to portray for its
readers, but it is also up to the choice of readers, how they take those ideas
and themes. Moreover, every story can have its own cultural and social context,
which may be narrated differently, and it may be understood differently by the
readers. In this story, the author has tried to cover different themes, where
she has tried to show the understanding of the world from adults’ perspective,
but then she also tried to give a version of a child to show, how a child sees
things around him/her. The narrator of the story is 10 years girl, Lilia, who
is the daughter of a couple, who is Indian American, came from India and
settled in America. The story is happening in the period of 1971 when the world
was observing a civil war in the sub-continent between India and Pakistan, and
different events were happening. Lilia reminds of Mr. Pirzada, who used to come
to their home every night for dinner. It is one of the themes of the story,
which throws light on the lives of people, who have migrated to other
countries, and living a life different than their homeland. It is obvious, when
people leave their homeland, the life changes in every context for them, and
for their children (Iwamoto and Liu)
This is what is narrated in the story, as Lilia is a
child, who does not have an understanding level of the world, as an adult can
have, so she looks at things with her own perspective. Like, she thinks that
Mr. Pirzada comes from the same kind of social and religious background, which
is contained by her parents. It means that a child is not able to distinguish
people on the basis of their overall social status and getup. Mr. Pirzada was a
Muslim man from Dacca, a part of Pakistan, going through a civil war, where
Lilia’s family belongs to Hindu religions, and they came from India. The other
interesting thing to look at in this story is the change in cultural and social
background. Lilia was having its time in America, where she was also going to
her school. The story reveals that Lilia knows a lot of things about America
and its culture, as this is what she learns from her school. But when it comes
to her own native country, India; she knows nothing. It is quite strange to
learn that someone does not know about her native country, but she knows a lot
about a country, where they have migrated. But it is quite obvious to happen,
especially for growing children, who are trying to get an understanding of the
world around them. It is obvious when a child will grow in a different society,
where things are much different than the native land, and then the child will
start learning about the culture, where he/she is growing. And this is the case
with Lilia as well.
It is evident that Lilia is having a better understanding
of America as compared to India. Even it was narrated in the story that when
her father found out about her ignorance regarding India, he was not happy. But
then her mother comes to defend her by saying that they are now living in the
United States, so there is no need to have knowledge of India with all of its
food scarcity, riots, and curfews. For many, this statement will be a shock,
like how someone can think like this about her country, but the bitter reality
is that when people flee out of their developing world and experience the
better system of the developed world, they want to forget about their native
land, where life was much more difficult. However, in the same story, the role
of Lilia’s father also shows that wherever people go, they keep their love
relationship with their land, at least in their hearts. Lilia’s father
certainly missed his country and people, and that’s why he made an effort to
find someone, who comes from the same region, and then he found Mr. Pirzada,
who also came from sub-continent. It also shows that people do miss their
culture and native land when they start living in a foreign land (The Economist)
One more thing, which is being narrated in this story, is
the connection of people of sub-continent with their land and people. It was
mentioned earlier that Lilia’s father had some feelings for his homeland and
culture, and that’s why he found Mr. Pirzada and invited to a dinner at his
home as they shared similar kind of culture, social background, as well as,
similar language. The same is the case with Mr. Pirzada, who knows that a civil
war is happening in his country, and that’s why he was worried about his
family. It is vital to mention here that the wife and seven daughters of Mr.
Pirzada were living in East Pakistan, and he was worried about their safety.
The other worrisome part was that he was not able to get in touch with them.
So, he was really worried about them, as well as, for his homeland, and praying
that everything goes well. It again shows that when people leave their homeland
for any reason like to earn something better or to settle in a better and
developed country, but they are not able to forget their country. This thing is
more strongly associated with the people of the sub-continent, who tend to
leave their land to find better opportunities, but they also miss their people,
land, and culture. This family union with Mr. Pirzada is evidence, how they wanted
to connect with each other (Lahiri)
This social connection between Mr. Pirzada and Lilia’s
family got stronger with the passage of time. He used to bring candies for
Lilia, and she loved this gesture by Mr. Pirzada. His daily visit for a dinner
at their home created a unique connection in the mind of Lilia. Especially,
when she came to know that Mr. Pirzada’s family is stuck in a war zone, and he
is worried about his wife and seven daughters. To show her care and love for
Mr. Pirzada and his family, she used to eat candy every night before bed,
thinking about the safety of Mr. Pirzada’s family. This was her innocent way of
showing care for others. It shows the innocence of a child, how she developed
her own way of living and connecting with others. It is true that Lilia was
becoming an American, but she has a heart, which still feels for the pain and
miseries of others. She was not thinking like her mother, who uttered the very
strict word for her homeland India, and showed that she won't have a soft heart
maybe. But Lilia was different in her approach, and she was having a pity
feeling for Mr. Pirzada and his family.
The story also comes with a theme that children are so
different when it comes to looking at social, cultural, or political
perspectives. They don’t see things by keeping these contexts in view; rather
they have their view of the world, which is quite different from the view of
the world contained by adults. An adult does look at the above-mentioned
perspectives when he/she tries to get an understanding of the world around, but
Lilia’s understanding of the world was based on love and humanity, rather
having a basis on cultural, social, and political backgrounds. So, an idea of a
better world is being narrated in the story, where people should connect and
socialize with each other regardless of their social background and
nationality. That’s why; this story was very simple in its themes and narration
because it did not come up with any complex ideas to understand. The story is
simple to show the daily life of a family living in America, who left their own
country to live a better life. This family may have a lot of other things to do
if they were in India, but their life in America was so different (Lahiri)
It can be concluded in the end that when people leave
their native countries and settle in other developed countries, they have to
experience so many changes in the pattern of their lives. Nothing is similar to
life, which they spent in their homelands. They also miss their own culture and
people, and that’s why, Mr. Pirzada went back to his native land, and wrote a
letter to Lilia’s family, which revealed that his family remained safe during
the war, and he has been reunited with his family; his wife and seven
daughters. The social connection between Mr. Pirzada was there at the end of
the story as well, which was created during his stay in America. It was the
first night after learning about the safety of Mr. Pirzada’s family that Lilia
did not eat candy, as she thought, now; there is no need for that. However, the
overall story depicts a life-changing experience of people becoming foreigners
in other countries and having a different taste of life in so many ways (Lahiri)
Works Cited of Analysis
of the Literary Work
Iwamoto, Derek Kenji and William Ming Liu. "The
Impact of Racial Identity, Ethnic Identity, Asian Values and Race-Related
Stress on Asian Americans and Asian International College Students’
Psychological Well-Being." J Couns Psychol. 57.1 (2010): 79–91.
Lahiri, Jhumpa . Interpreter of Maladies.
Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2000.
The Economist. Why children’s lives have changed
radically in just a few decades. 2019. 2 May 2020
<https://www.economist.com/special-report/2019/01/03/why-childrens-lives-have-changed-radically-in-just-a-few-decades>.