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The murderers we interviewed were not representative of men who kill ~~I their partners in one important respect: none of them had also killed them-
selves. For two of the men, this had not been for lack of trying. Immedi- ', ately after strangling and stabbing his partner, one man had plunged the
same knife into his neck and slashed both wrists. In an attempt to finish Himself off, he had then attempted to stab himself in the chest. By that point, however, he had been too weak from loss of blood to penetrate his rib -cage and passed out. This man had survived only due to the rapid re- sponse of the EMTs. I will describe this man, Allen, in more detail in the later section about the suicidal type of killer. The other killer who had attempted suicide had shot himself in the chest immediately after shoot- ing his partner in the neck and head. He was hospitalized for two months in recovery. In profiling the suicidal type of killer, I will draw from other research findings.
Including the men who we characterized as suicidal, I found all thi~-ty- one killers could be classified under at least one of five broad types. These types were jealous, substance abusing, materially motivated, suicidal, and career criminal. I also found that there was considerable overlap among these types. We classified more than half of the men as belonging to more than one of these types. The laxgest overlaps were between the jealous and the substance abusing types. There was also a considerable overlap between the career cruninal and the materially motivated types. I will say more about these overlaps in the section about men who pose multiple threats.
'There are any number of alternative ways that killers, like any other individuals, could be classified. One possible classification scheme would
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y type. I did not undertak
e to classify t he killers
in this manne r because it
is already lrn own that murd
erers have m any per-
sonality type s. I wished i
nstead Co foc us on assess
ments of beh avior and
attitude. Tho ugh there mi
ght be some value to asse
ssing which pexsonality
types are mos t common; th
e added time it would hav
e taken to ad minister
personality a ssessment too
ls would hav e been at the
expense of t he struc-
tured intervi ews and the a
ttitude and be havior measu
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Similarly, I d zd not attem
pt to categori ze the killers
formally acc ord-
ing to mental health diagn
oses. One re ason was tha
t this also wo ald have
been time co nsuming and
at the expen se of other i
nformation. S econdly,
:̀~ classification
s based on ps ychopatholo
gy are notor iously hard
to under-
stand and im practical for
those who i ntervene in d
omestic viole nce cases,
_~ and even mo
re so for the general publ
zc. For insta nce, to say th
at some
l
killers have narcissistic pe
rsonalities o r even anti-s
ocial ones is useless as
' ' a guide for a
ssessing dan gerousness s
ince most pe ople charged
with as-
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sessing dange r do not use,
and are not q ualified or tra
ined to use, p sycho-
_ .l diagnostic me asures. One
such measure , for instanc
e, is the psych opat,~ic
4. ; checl~list.l Th
is is used by farensic psy
chologists a nd other trai
ned crimi-
;; . nal justice w
orkers to ass ess for psych
opathy, one major aspec
t of anti-
,.~~ ' social person
ality disorde r. It is know
n that high p roportions o
f violent
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offenders, pa rticularly kil
lers, have su ch traits.2 Wh
ile some of these are
~, ~' behavior trait
s, such as chr onic lying an
d exploitativ e behavior, ot
hers are
more subjec tive, such as
the Lack of r emorse or gu
ilt for one's actions,
t glibness or s
uperficial cha rm, having a
grandiose se nse of self-w
orth, be-
f
~ ~ >, ing irrespons
ible, and hav ing shallow
affect. Discer ning these tr
aits is not
,~w~ ~ only difficul
t for the Iay public but als
o among law enforcemen
t profes-
'~~~ sionals, and
among train ed therapists
as well. Ev en the short
ened ver-
~x;-:" ' sion of the p
sychopathy checklist tak
es at least on e hour to co
mplete b}~
'~a ; a trained pro
fessional. Us ually those j
udged to be high in p
sychopathic
~2~ - traits have a
lready amply demonstrate
d their high potential fox
violence
~< and fox other
crimes agai nst people. P
erhaps the m ost useful
aspect o'
~ off~;
such diagnos tics is to ma
tch the indi vidual with
the form of treatmer~,
z ~ ~ ~1iat might b e most effect
ive. It is comm only advise
d that indivi duals wt,~
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eo be high in psychopath
y will not be nefit from
outpatie,~~
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therapy and should only r
eceive treatm ent in a highl
y structured enviro ~'
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ment. Furthe r discussion
of psychopat l~y will be pr
ovided in th e sectic
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lly motivated and career c
runinal types of fillers.
36 ( TNhy Do They Kill?
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relationship histories more than on their psycholo gical cliaracteris- k r, ;;' " w ~'
and
Tics. These behaviors are easily di scernable for victims of abuse as well ~ ~ ".
as those who work with them. In classif ying each killer, I relied upon ; , ~ ,'
has own testimony as well as police repor ts and newspaper accounts of I:~ ' ~`~.
murders. Such accounts often provided backgroun d information, such
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as quotes from witnesses and friends and relative s of the victims. These i ~ ;
witnesses often had informarion about the perpetrator's prior abuse of the
deceased. I also had access to each killer's criminal record, as well as trial
transcripts in some cases. To confirm the validity of each of the categories
of killer, I relied upon information from the victims of attem pted homicide
that we interviewed. From these interviews, a more detailed picture of
perpetrators of near-fatal abuse emerged. Demographically, the perpet ra-
tors of attempted homicide were very similar to the killers. Judging fro m
their victims' accounts, they also exhibited similar attitudes, expectations,
and patterns of abuse. The killers and near-killers were also similar in
their rates of substance abuse and mental health problems, as well as their
exposure to violence in their upbringings. The more detailed information
provided by victims of attempted homicide, particularly about perpetra-
tors' abusive behavior, was indispensable in. completing the picture of
men who kill. In this way, the victims of attempted homicide served as
"stand-ins" for those women who could no longer speak.
Each of the five types of killers profiled had somewhat distinctive
ways of meeting women and of forming intimate relationships. I found
that each type also had unique patterns of behavior within those relation-
ships, as well as unique complaints and grievances toward their part-
ners. Though all five types of perpetrators exhibited abusive or coercive
behavior toward their partners, it seemed to be motivated by factors that
were unique to that particular style. Moreover, the fatal and near-fatal as-
saults appeared to be triggered by these same factors. For each type of
killer, I found that the man's short-term triggers were not new but were
consistent with his longtime grievances toward the woman he killed.
Jealous Type
Most of the killers carne across as extremely jealous. This was the largest
category of killers, with seventy-one percent fitting the criteria for mem-
Killer Profiles ~ 37
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bership. It is probabl
e that the a ctual perc
entage is h igher, but
we did not
have suffi cient infor
mation ab out some o
f the kille rs to scree
n them in a s
jealous typ es. Accord
ing to info rmation fr
om the vic tims of att
empted ho-
nnicide tha t we inter
viewed, ezg hteen of t
he twenty p erpetrator
s (or 90% )
were extr emely jeal
ous, The c ziteria I u
sed for cat egorizing
a killer as a
jealous ty pe include
d the follo wing four
characteris tics and be
haviors:
1) The pe rpetrator f
requently had jealou
s suspicio ns that his
partner wa s sexually
involved o r intereste
d in others. He was
preoccupi ed with th
ese jealou s thoughts.
2) He fre quently ma
de jealous accusation
s to his pa rtner, and
frequently asked jea
lous quest ions.
3) He oft en made a
ttempts to confirm hi
s suspicio ns by moni
toring
the victim' s whereabo
uts and ac tivities.
4) He'd c ommitted
at least on e act of ab
use oz vio lence towa
rd the
victim or t oward her
alleged ro mantic par
tner in res ponse to hi
s
jealous su spicions a
r beliefs.
All twenty -two of the
killers wh om we cha
racterized as extreme
ly jealous
e~ibited at least th
ree of the a bove chara
cteristics. It is impor
tant to not e
that criteri a number t
hree by its elf did not
qualify a k iller as be
ing jealou s
since his m onitoring
may have had anothe
r motive be sides jealo
usy. Some
of the kill ers, especi
ally the m aterially
motivated ones, mon
itored the ir
victims' a ctivities n
ot with an y jealous n
otions but with inten
t to over see
their activ ities. The
purpose w as not to
confizm o z disconfi
rm a jeal ous
suspicion but to dete
rmine whe ther the vi
ctim was f ollowing
through o n
things tha t he expec
ted of her. For examp
le, several killers ad
mitted th a(
they often monitored
their part ners' spen
ding. Othe r killers s
aid that they
often moni tored thei
r partners' social act
ivities to ensure tha
t they w e+ -
not associ ating with
people th e znen con
sidered to be "a bad
in8uen cc
Often thes e "bad infl
uences" m eant peopl
e who migh t seek to t
ake steps ~~
end the rel ationships.
One killer admitted
that he for bade his
partner fro,
seeing cer tain relati
ves whom he said h
ad "put id eas in her
head a bs~-
being a ba ttered wom
an." Seve ral of the
ottzer kill ers said t
hat they ~~ ',~
often liste ned in on t
heir partne rs' teleph
one conver sations
with frie ' ''s
and relati ves to moni
tor what might be d
isclosed a bout the
women's
tivities an, d plans. So
me killers seemed n
ot to worr y about
tl~e ex iste L°
38 ( Wh y Do The
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we did not r them in as m ted 'P ho- (or 90%) ~ killer as a ~viors:
~~ s !'i , was
d ~
~itoring i E.
u'd the to his
jealous to note jealous ~. Some d their >versee ealous igh on ~d that ~t they
were :nce." eps to from about ~ had
of another man as much as the possibility that the victim would end the
relationship. These men could be said to be possessive more than jealous.
] will say more about possessive control and stalking in later chapters.
In many cases, the killer's monitoring of the victim appeared to have
a dual purpose: to confirm a jealous suspicion and also to look for signs
of compliance or noncompliance on her part. In determining whether
certain killers fit the jealous profile, it was necessary to go beyond their
self-assessments about jealousy since many downplayed any jealous ten-
dencies. Even some of the men who claimed to have killed their partners
in a "jealous rage" avowed not to be abnormally jealous individuals. As
one killer put it, "I'm a reasonable man but she drove me to be jealous
with what she was doing." This man cited no solid evidence that his part-
ner was being unfaithful, though he had continuously spied upon her and
sought to verify her accounts of her activities. During this man's murder
trial, the victim's family and friends strongly refuted his claims that she
had been having an affair and said that the victim had often complained to
them about his jealousy.
Killing from Jealous Rage?
One of the most popular and persistent ways that the media portray do-
mestic homicides is as "crimes of passion" in which a jealous husband
kills an unfaithful .wife and sometimes her lover as well. Unfortunately,
both investigators and reporters sometimes glibly offer this phrase as an
explanation, as if to distinguish these killings from others that are por-
trayed as more "heinous" and "cold blooded." But is that ever the whole
story? When a murderer claims to have killed out of jealous rage, this
should never be accepted at face value. When domestic violence has been
part of the equation, the man's accusation of the woman's infidelity must
be examined within the context of an abusive relationship. Was the killing
a moment of "temporary insanity" prompted by the killer's discovery of
an affair? Or was it the final culmination of possessive control and escalat-
ing violence within the relationship?
To answer this question, I examined each case in which the killer :ends claimed that the murder had been primarily prompted by his partner's in- s ac- i volvement with another person. Thirteen of the thirty-one killers (65% ence ~ of the jealous type of killers and 41% of the total) made such claims. It
E Killer Profiles ~ 39
should be no ted, howevex
, that twelv e of Chese m
en said that the warder
also had bee n prompted
by the victi m's decision
to end the relationship.
Seven of th ese victims h
ad already separated fro
m their futu re killers an
d
an. eighth, w ho had neve
r lived with him, had br
oken off any contact wit
h
him. Interes tingly, only o
ne of the thi rteen men wh
o claimed to have killed
out of a jeal ous rage had
been convic ted of mansl
aughter. Sev en were con-
a
victed of fir st degree mu
rder while the remaizun
g five were convicted of
second degr ee murder. T
his means th ere was ove
rwhe3ming evidence tha
t
these men, c laiming to ha
ve killed in a jealous ra
ge, had in fa ct acted with
considerable premeditatio
n.
One killer, Dennis, cla
imed to hav e found an
unused cond om on
his estrange d wife's nig
ht table, pro mpting him
to stab her i n the chest.
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Strong evid ence of prem
editation, h owever, was
presented at Dennis's
murder trial. The couple
had separa ted a year e
arlier when his wife, Su-
F
san, took ou t a restrainin
g order and f iled for div
orce. Over th e year befor
e
her death, Su san had acc
used Dennis of violating
her restzain ing ordex by
entering her house on th
ree different occasions wh
en she wasn 't there and
by making t hreatening p
hone calls o n two other
occasions. Susan had b
e-
gun dating a nother man
shortly befor e her divorc
e fxom Denni s was final-
ized. Meanwh ile, Dennzs'
s gambling problem ha
d escalated t o the point
where he was tens of thou
sands of doll ars in debt.
According t o the police
investigatio n of Susan's
homicide, D ennzs carri
ed a hunting knife with
him when he broke into h
er house on the evening
he killed he r, There was
also eviden ce that Dennz
s had made several pho
ne calls to tr ack Susan's
whereabouts that day. Th
e medical ex aminer repo
rted that Sus an had been
stabbed at l east nine tim
es.
In eight of t he cases whe
re the killers claimed to
have killed o ut of a
jealous rage , there is no
independen t evidence t
hat their part ner had been
involved wit h someone el
se. In four o f these cases
, friends and lor zelatives
of the decea sed provided
strong test imony to tb.e
contrary, sa ying that aa
y
rnfzdelzties o n the victim
's part had b een solely i
n the imagin ation of th
e
jealously po ssessive perp
etrator. Tab le 3.1 summa
rizes our fin dings abou
t
this.
In some cas es, it was ha
rd to discern whether th
e killer since rely be-
lieved that h is partner ha
d been inv olved with s
omeane else or whethe
r
his 'allegatio ns were fabr
icated in ord er to win s
ympathy fro m others, i
n-
cluding cour t juries. Far
some of the killers, their
continual allegations
of
infidelity ap peared To hav
e been a ma jor part of
their attempt s to cont
rol
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ers' claims
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of killing out of a jealous rage
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Total number of men claiming to
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have killed out of a jea lous rage
13 (42%) ~ ~ kS
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Of these thirteen man:
Number convicted of fir st degree murder
7
Number convicted of se cond degree murder
5
Number convicted of mansl aughter
1
There is evidence the victim was involved with
someone else 5 (38%)
There is no evidence the victi m was involved with
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someone else 8 (62%) ~
and to isolate their partners socially. Many victims o
f severe abuse said I'
that their abusers' frequent allegations had caused them
to curtail or cease
contact with friends and rela tives. One victim said, "I
just gave np with
my friends anyway because if I did make an effort to see th
em, he would
always badger me with questio ns and make my life miserab
le."
For battering men, their jeal ousy provides a nearly per
fect excuse
for their abusive behavior, maki ng it appear "crazy" or irr
ational rather
than deliberate or calculating. Some batterers go so far as to
proclaim that ~
their extreme jealousy is evid ence of their deep devotion a
nd passion for
their partners. In explaining hi s jealous rages, one young m
an told his
girlfriend, "I wouldn't do the se things if I didn't love you so
much:'
Jealous Thoughts and Behav iors
According to the victims of sev ere abuse that we interviewed
, the vast ma-
jority of their abusers displa yed extremely jealous behavi
or. Nearly 90%
of the women said that they we re subjected to frequent jeal
ous questions
and accusations, often accomp anied by abusive behavior su
ch as monitor-
ing, stalking, and threatening o r committing vzolence. At l
east half of the
women said that their partners checked their clothing for
signs of sexual
activity. Table 3.2 presents fi ndings about how victims ra
ted the jealous
feelings of their abusive part ners.
In some instances, the abusi ve men's lists of imagined r
omantic rivets
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Table 3.2: SeYiously ba ttered women's ratings
of their partners' jeal ousy
Percentage
of victims
who said "yes"
How jealous did your partner He was very
get of your relationships with jealous or 89
members of the opposite sex? extremely jealous
In general, how jealous of a He was very
person do you think your partne r jealous or
7
was? extremely jealous
In response to the following
scenarios, how jealous do you
think your partner would be
— We were at a bar together and He would be
another man invited me to dance moderately to 83
but I politely said no. extremely jealous
—When buying something at a He would be
convenience store, I laughed at moderately to 69
something the store clerk said. extremely jealous
N=35
are very long, extending even to members of the victims'
families. Nearly
one-quarter of the victims we interviewed said that thei
r abusers had ac-
cused them of sexual interest in their own relatives. The
women said they
found this particularly distress ing since these accusations
were sometimes
accompanied by demands that they stop having contact w
ith the relative.
Three women said that they regretted telling their abusers
about their past
traumatic experiences with incest since it subsequently le
d to allegations
that they had been complicit with the sexual acts or tha
t they continued
to have interest in the relat ive who abused them. In on
e case, the bat-
terer beat up the vicfiim's fat her who had sexually abused
her as a child.
This led to the victim beco ming further alienated from
her mother and
siblings.
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Case Exam
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Emmit was thi
nursing home
twice previous
wife and one b
ended badly di
had threatened
mit insisted th
about it." Emr
date, when Lc
husband with f
sistence, Lour
parents. Louis
failed marriage
Emmit confro:
driveway. Afte
Emmit, Louise
After one mar
hirn and the ne i
now, Emmit h
working in an.
couple bought
Suspicion
ously urged h~
After about fr
~ the seasonal se
worked odd jc
ing all their bi
back to school
she resumed ~
By mid-1
fair because sl
incident in ea
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Case Example 1
"I knew that I couldn't trust her .
It was the same way with my sec ond wife."
Bmmit was thirty-nine and Louise twenty-nine when they first met a
t the
nursing home where they we re both working. Emmit had been marri
ed
twice previously and Louise once. Emmit had two children by his fir
st
wife and one by his second. Emmi t said that both of these prior marriages
ended badly due to infidelity on each ex-partner's part. Conceding that he
had threatened violence and someti mes hit or pushed each ex-partner, Em-
mit insisted that these were "natural reactions to their cheating and lying
about it" Emmit's first jealousy to ward Louise appeared after their first
date, when Louise admitted that she was still living with her estranged
husband with whom she had atwo -year old son, Brian. At Emmit's in-
sistence, Louise filed for divorce two mon ths later and moved in with her
parents. Louise's parents were negativ e toward Emrnit because of lus two
failed marriages and urged Louise to stop seeing him. In response to this,
Emmit confronted Louise's father, havi ng a "fist fight" with him in the
driveway. After Louise's father filed a ch arge of assault and battery against
Emmit, Louise decided to find an apartm ent in which to live with her son.
After one month in the new place,