S I X T H E D I T I O N
R O Y J . L E W I C K I B R U C E B A R R Y D AV I D M . S A U N D E R S
NEGOTIATION Essentials of
Essentials of Negotiation
Sixth edition
Roy J. Lewicki The Ohio State University
Bruce Barry Vanderbilt University
David M. Saunders Queen’s University
ESSENTIALS OF NEGOTIATION: SIXTH EDITION
Published by McGraw-Hill Education, 2 Penn Plaza, New York, NY 10121. Copyright © 2016 by
McGraw-Hill Education. All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. Previous editions
© 2011, 2007, 2004, and 2001. No part of this publication may be reproduced or distributed in any form
or by any means, or stored in a database or retrieval system, without the prior written consent of McGraw-
Hill Education, including, but not limited to, in any network or other electronic storage or transmission, or
broadcast for distance learning.
Some ancillaries, including electronic and print components, may not be available to customers outside the
United States.
This book is printed on acid-free paper.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 0 DOC/DOC 1 0 9 8 7 6 5
ISBN 978-0-07-7862466
MHID 0-07-7862465
Senior Vice President, Products & Markets: Kurt L. Strand Vice President, General Manager, Products & Markets: Michael Ryan Vice President, Content Design & Delivery: Kimberly Meriwether David Director of Management & Organizational Behavior: Michael Ablassmeir Director, Product Development: Meghan Campbell Lead Product Developer: Laura Hurst Spell Senior Product Developer: Laura Griffi n Marketing Manager: Elizabeth Trepkowski Executive Program Manager: Faye M. Herrig Marketing Specialist: Liz Steiner Director, Content Design & Delivery: Terri Schiesl Content Project Managers: Jessica Portz, Danielle Clement, and Judi David Buyer: Jennifer Pickel Design: Base Art, Studio Montage Content Licensing Specialist: DeAnna Dausener Compositor: MPS Limited Printer: R. R. Donnelley
All credits appearing on page or at the end of the book are considered to be an extension of the copyright
page.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Lewicki, Roy J.
Essentials of negotiation / Roy J. Lewicki, The Ohio State University,
Bruce Barry, Vanderbilt University David M. Saunders, Queen’s University. —
Sixth Edition.
pages cm
ISBN 978-0-07-786246-6 (alk. paper)
1. Negotiation in business. 2. Negotiation. I. Barry, Bruce, 1958- II.
Saunders, David M. III. Title.
HD58.6.L487 2015
658.4’052—dc2 2014041287
The Internet addresses listed in the text were accurate at the time of publication. The inclusion of a website
does not indicate an endorsement by the authors or McGraw-Hill Education, and McGraw-Hill Education
does not guarantee the accuracy of the information presented at these sites.
www.mhhe.com
iii
Dedication
We dedicate this book to all negotiation, mediation, and dispute resolution professionals who try to make the world a more peaceful and prosperous place.
And to John W. Minton (1946–2007): friend, colleague, and co-author.
iv Contents
iv
About the Authors
Roy J. Lewicki is the Irving Abramowitz Memorial Professor of Business Ethics Emer- itus and Professor of Management and Human Resources Emeritus at the Max M. Fisher
College of Business, The Ohio State University. He has authored or edited 36 books, as
well as numerous research articles and book chapters. Professor Lewicki has served as the
president of the International Association for Conflict Management, and he received its
Lifetime Achievement Award in 2013. He received the Academy of Management’s Distin-
guished Educator Award in 2005 and was recognized as a Fellow of the Organizational
Behavior Teaching Society for his contributions to the field of teaching in negotiation and
dispute resolution.
Bruce Barry is the Brownlee O. Currey Jr. Professor of Management at the Owen Graduate School of Management at Vanderbilt University. His research on negotiation,
ethics, power, influence, and justice has appeared in numerous scholarly journals and
volumes. Professor Barry is a past president of the International Association for Conflict
Management and a past chair of the Academy of Management Conflict Management
Division. He is associate editor of the scholarly journal Business Ethics Quarterly and sits on the editorial boards of several others.
David M. Saunders has served as Dean of Queen’s School of Business (QSB) since July 2003. Under Professor Saunders’s strategic leadership, the School has experienced
dramatic growth, including the addition of new and innovative MBA, professional mas-
ters, and executive education programs. To keep pace with this growth, he oversaw a sig-
nificant expansion to Goodes Hall, the home of the School of Business, which opened in
2012. In support of QSB’s mission to develop outstanding leaders with a global perspec-
tive, Professor Saunders has internationalized the School, adding 80 strategic partnerships
with business schools around the globe. Professor Saunders is Chair of the EQUIS Award-
ing Body, the accreditation arm of the European Foundation for Management Develop-
ment, and sits on the board of CEIBS, the China Europe International Business School.
Contents v
v
Preface
Welcome to the sixth edition of Essentials of Negotiation! Again, this book represents our response to many faculty who wanted a brief version of the longer text. Negotiation (Seventh Edition). The objective of this shorter version is to provide the reader with the core concepts
of negotiation in a more succinct presentation. Many faculty requested such a book for use in
shorter academic course, executive education programs, or as a companion to other resource
materials. It is suitable for courses in negotiation, labor relations, conflict management, human
resource management, and the like.
Overview of This Book
The organization of this volume generally follows the more complete Seventh Edition of
Negotiation. The fundamental difference between this and the Seventh Edition text is that this book contains only 12 chapters, while the complete Seventh Edition contains 20 chapters. The
first four chapters have only been minimally shortened for this volume, because we believe
that the content is essential to any negotiation course. (The shortening process includes edit-
ing out some of the more research-oriented references and descriptions, deleting many of the
boxes and sidebars, and occasionally some secondary sections.) Similarly, the last chapter
is reproduced in full. The other seven chapters from Negotiation, have been included, but shortened by 25–50 percent each.
For the instructor who is not familiar with Essentials (the first five editions) or Negotia- tion (Seventh or earlier editions), a brief overview is in order. The first five chapters introduce the reader to “Negotiation Fundamentals.” The first chapter introduces the field of negotiation
and conflict management, describes the basic problem of interdependence with other people,
and briefly explores the challenges of managing that interdependence. Chapters 2 and 3 then
present the two core strategic approaches to negotiation: the basic dynamics of competitive
(win-lose) bargaining (Chapter 2) and the basic dynamics of integrative (win-win) negotia-
tion (Chapter 3). Chapter 4 describes the fundamental prework that negotiators must do to
get ready for a negotiation: selecting the strategy, framing the issues, defining negotiation
objectives, and planning the steps one will pursue to achieve those objectives. In Chapter 5, we
examine the ethical standards and criteria that surround negotiation. The effective negotiator
must recognize when ethical questions are relevant and what factors must be considered to
address them effectively.
The next three chapters describe the fundamental psychological subprocesses of negotia-
tion: perception, cognition, and emotion; communication; and power. In Chapter 6, we review
the basic processes of perception, cognition, and emotion in negotiation, we specifically ex-
amine common cognitive and judgment biases made by negotiators, and how emotion can
affect negotiations. In Chapter 7, we examine communication dynamics. We look at the ways
that negotiators communicate their interests, positions and goals, and how this information is
communicated to the other. Chapter 8 focuses on power. We look at the capabilities negotia-
tors can muster power to pressure the other side, so as to change his or her perspective or give
in to our arguments.
vi Preface
The next two chapters examine the social contexts in which these negotiations occur, and
which also therefore influence how they evolve. In Chapter 9, we examine how the negotiation
process changes when the parties have an established relationship with each other, and how
the type of relationship affects the negotiation process. We also examine the key roles played
by trust, justice and negotiator reputation in shaping negotiations. In Chapter 10, we look at
multiparty negotiations, when multiple individuals must work together as a group, team or
task force to solve a complex problem or make a decision.
In Chapter 11, we attempt to clarify how international and cross-cultural differences can
shape the diverse ways that parties approach negotiations.
Finally, in Chapter 12, we present a new concluding chapter, summarizing the book’s
content and offering ten “best practices” principles for all negotiators.
Comparison of This Book to the Fifth Edition of Essentials
• All of this book has been revised and updated. The authors reviewed every chap-
ter, utilizing extensive feedback from faculty who have used the book in previous
editions. The content in some of the chapters has been reorganized to present the
material more effectively.
• The Ethics chapter was moved into the “fundamentals” section as Chapter 5.
• We have further improved the graphics format and page layout of the book to make it
visually more interesting and readable.
• We have added learning objectives to the beginning of each chapter.
• The new structure of this book will be paralleled by a major revision to our readings
and classroom activities book. Negotiation: Readings, Exercises, and Cases, Seventh Edition, edited by Roy Lewicki, Bruce Barry, and David Saunders to appear in 2015.
This text and reader can be used together or separately. We encourage instructors to
contact their local McGraw-Hill/Irwin representative for an examination copy (or call
800-634-3963, or visit the Web site at www.mhhe.com).
• Instructional resources, including a test bank, chapter outlines, PowerPoint slides,
and extensive assistance on ways that new instructors can improve their teaching of
negotiation skills, are available to accompany this volume. Instructors should contact
their McGraw-Hill/Irwin representative.
Connect Plus Management
Less Managing. More Teaching. Greater Learning.
Connect® Management is McGraw-Hill’s web-based assignment and assessment platform that
connects you and your students to the coursework. Students apply what they’ve learned and
receive immediate feedback. Instructors can customize these activities and monitor student
progress. Connect Management for Essentials of Negotiation includes:
Preface vii
Simple Assignment Management and Grading
With Connect Management, creating assignments is easier than ever, so you can spend more
time teaching and less time managing. The assignment management function enables you to:
• Create and deliver assignments easily with selectable Test Bank items.
• Streamline lesson planning, student progress reporting, and assignment grading to
make classroom management more efficient than ever.
• Go paperless with the eBook and online submission and grading of student
assignments.
New! LearnSmart and SmartBookTM
LearnSmart is an adaptive study tool proven to strengthen memory recall, increase class re-
tention, and boost grades. Students are able to study more efficiently because they are made
aware of what they know and don’t know. Real-time reports quickly identify the concepts that
require more attention from individual students—or the entire class. SmartBook is the first
and only adaptive reading experience designed to change the way students read and learn.
It creates a personalized reading experience by highlighting the most impactful concepts a
student needs to learn at that moment in time. As a student engages with SmartBook, the read-
ing experience continuously adapts by highlighting content based on what the student knows
and doesn’t know. This ensures that the focus is on the content he or she needs to learn, while
simultaneously promoting long-term retention of material. Use SmartBook’s real-time reports
to quickly identify the concepts that require more attention from individual students—or the
entire class. The end result? Students are more engaged with course content, can better priori-
tize their time, and come to class ready to participate.
Instructor Library
The Connect Management Instructor Library is your repository for additional resources to im-
prove student engagement in and out of class. You can select and use any asset that enhances
your lecture. The Connect Management Instructor Library includes:
• The Instructor’s Manual: Each chapter includes an overview, learning objectives, chapter outline, and summary.
• Test Bank: Includes more than 700 questions and consists of fill in the blank, true/ false, multiple choice, and short-answer questions.
• PowerPoint: Contains figures and tables from the text plus additional graphic material.
• Web Links: Offers additional links for more information on negotiation.
Support Materials
Instructional resources—including a test bank, chapter outlines, PowerPoint slides, and ex-
tensive resource materials on teaching negotiation skills for new instructors—are available
to accompany this volume on the text-specific website, www.mhhe.com/lewickinegotiation
viii Preface
Using Create, McGraw-Hill’s custom publishing service, instruc- tors can build a text tailored to individual course needs incorporating materials from the three
texts in this series. Create allows instructors to customize teaching resources to match the way they teach! With McGraw-Hill Create, www.mcgrawhillcreate.com, you can easily re- arrange chapters; combine material from other content sources; and quickly upload content
you have written, like your course syllabus or teaching notes. Find the content you need in
Create by searching through thousands of leading McGraw-Hill textbooks. Arrange your book to fit your teaching style. Create even allows you to personalize your book’s appearance by selecting the cover and adding your name, school, and course information. Order a Create book and you’ll receive a complimentary print review copy in three to five business days or
a complimentary electronic review copy (eComp) via e-mail in about one hour. Go to www. mcgrawhillcreate.com today and register. Experience how McGraw-Hill Create empowers you to teach your students your way.
Introducing McGraw-Hill CreateTM ExpressBooks! ExpressBooks contain a combination of preselected chapters, articles, cases, or readings that serve as a starting point to help you
quickly and easily build your own text through McGraw-Hill’s self-service custom publishing
website, Create. These helpful templates are built using content available on Create and orga- nized in ways that match various course outlines across all disciplines. We understand that you
have a unique perspective. Use McGraw-Hill Create ExpressBooks to build the book you’ve only imagined! www.mcgrawhillcreate.com Instructors should also note that the authors and McGraw-Hill have partnered with
ExpertNegotiator.com. ExpertNegotiator is a set of online tools that serve both student and instructor. Students are provided with a structured negotiation preparation template, keyed
to the terminology used in the Lewicki et al. texts, to more thoroughly prepare for negoti-
ation simulations. Instructors can use the software as a course management system to pair
students for role-plays (including all role-plays in the companion volume, Negotiation Read- ings, Exercises, and Cases, 7th Edition), collect and distribute role information, and provide students with feedback on their negotiation plans. Students access the software by purchas-
ing it as a package price with any of the Lewicki et al. texts. For more information, contact
the local McGraw-Hill Education representative, and explore the power of the software at
www. ExpertNegotiator.com.
Appreciation
Once again, this book could not have been completed without the assistance of numerous
people. We especially thank
• Many of our colleagues in the negotiation and dispute resolution field, whose
research efforts have made the growth of this field possible and who have
given us helpful feedback about earlier editions to improve the content of this
edition.
• The following individuals who reviewed the text and offered their helpful feedback.
• The work of John Minton, who helped shape the second, third, and fourth editions of
this book and passed away in the Fall of 2007.
• The excellent editorial assistance of Steve Stenner, specifically for his help on copy-
editing, permissions, and bibliography and for refining the test bank and PowerPoint
slides.
• The Staff of McGraw-Hill/Education, especially lead product developer Laura Spell,
senior product developer Laura Griffin, and product developer Heather Darr; director
of management and organizational behavior Michael Ablassmeir; and marketing staff
Elizabeth Trepkowski and Liz Steiner.
• Our families, who continue to provide us with the time, inspiration, and opportunities
for continued learning about effective negotiation and the personal support required
to sustain this project.
Roy J. Lewicki Bruce Barry David M. Saunders
Preface ix
x Contents
x
1. The Nature of Negotiation 1
2. Strategy and Tactics of Distributive Bargaining 28
3. Strategy and Tactics of Integrative Negotiation 60
4. Negotiation: Strategy and Planning 89
5. Ethics in Negotiation 114
6. Perception, Cognition, and Emotion 139
7. Communication 165
8. Finding and Using Negotiation Power 182
9. Relationships in Negotiation 203
10. Multiple Parties, Groups, and Teams in Negotiation 220
11. International and Cross-Cultural Negotiation 242
12. Best Practices in Negotiations 273
Bibliography 283
Index 307
Contents in Brief
Contents xi
xi
Contents
Chapter 1
The Nature of Negotiation 1
A Few Words about Our Style and Approach 3
Joe and Sue Carter 4
Characteristics of a Negotiation Situation 6
Interdependence 10
Types of Interdependence Affect Outcomes 10
Alternatives Shape Interdependence 12
Mutual Adjustment 12
Mutual Adjustment and Concession Making 14
Two Dilemmas in Mutual Adjustment 14
Value Claiming and Value Creation 15
Conflict 18
Definitions 18
Levels of Conflict 19
Functions and Dysfunctions of Conflict 19
Factors That Make Conflict Easy or Difficult to Manage 21
Effective Conflict Management 21
Overview of the Chapters in This Book 25
Endnotes 27
Chapter 2
Strategy and Tactics of Distributive Bargaining 28
The Distributive Bargaining Situation 29
The Role of Alternatives to a Negotiated Agreement 32
Settlement Point 33
Discovering the Other Party’s Resistance Point 33
Influencing the Other Party’s Resistance Point 34
Tactical Tasks 36
Assess the Other Party’s Target, Resistance Point, and Costs of Terminating Negotiations 36
Manage the Other Party’s Impressions 38
Modify the Other Party’s Perceptions 40
Manipulate the Actual Costs of Delay or Termination 41
Positions Taken during Negotiation 42
Opening Offers 43
Opening Stance 44
Initial Concessions 44
Role of Concessions 45
Pattern of Concession Making 47
Final Offers 48
Closing the Deal 49
Provide Alternatives 49
Assume the Close 49
Split the Difference 49
Exploding Offers 50
Sweeteners 50
Hardball Tactics 50
Dealing with Typical Hardball Tactics 51
Typical Hardball Tactics 52
Chapter Summary 58
Endnotes 58
Chapter 3
Strategy and Tactics of Integrative Negotiation 60
An Overview of the Integrative Negotiation Process 60
Creating a Free Flow of Information 61
Attempting to Understand the Other Negotiator’s Real Needs and Objectives 62
xii Contents
Emphasizing the Commonalities between the Parties and Minimizing the Differences 62
Searching for Solutions That Meet the Needs and Objectives of Both Sides 63
Key Steps in the Integrative Negotiation Process 63
Step 1: Identify and Define the Problem 64
Step 2: Surface Interests and Needs 67
Step 3: Generate Alternative Solutions 70
Step 4: Evaluate and Select Alternatives 76
Factors That Facilitate Successful Integrative Negotiation 80
Some Common Objective or Goal 81
Faith in One’s Problem-Solving Ability 81
A Belief in the Validity of One’s Own Position and the Other’s Perspective 82
The Motivation and Commitment to Work Together 82
Trust 83
Clear and Accurate Communication 85
An Understanding of the Dynamics of Integrative Negotiation 86
Chapter Summary 86
Endnotes 87
Chapter 4
Negotiation: Strategy and Planning 89
Goals—The Focus That Drives a Negotiation Strategy 90
Direct Effects of Goals on Choice of Strategy 90
Indirect Effects of Goals on Choice of Strategy 91
Strategy versus Tactics 92
Accommodation, Competition, and Collaboration 92
Getting Ready to Implement the Strategy: The Planning Process 93
1. Defining the Negotiating Goal 97
2. Defining the Major Issue Related to Achieving the Goal 97
3. Assembling the Issues, Ranking Their Importance, and Defining the Bargaining Mix 99
4. Defining the Interests 100
5. Knowing Your Alternatives (BATNAs) 101
6. Knowing Your Limits, Including a Resistance Point 101
7. Analyzing and Understanding the Other Party’s Goals, Issues, and Resistance Points 102
8. Setting One’s Own Targets and Opening Bids 104
9. Assessing the Social Context of Negotiation 106
10. Presenting the Issues to the Other Party: Substance and Process 110
Chapter Summary 113
Endnotes 113
Chapter 5
Ethics in Negotiation 114
A Sampling of Ethical Quandaries 114
What Do We Mean by “Ethics,” and Why Do They Matter in Negotiation? 116
Ethics Defined 116
Applying Ethical Reasoning to Negotiation 117
Ethics versus Prudence versus Practicality versus Legality 117
What Questions of Ethical Conduct Arise in Negotiation? 119
Contents xiii
Ethically Ambiguous Tactics: It’s (Mostly) All about the Truth 120
Identifying Ethically Ambiguous Tactics and Attitudes toward Their Use 122
Deception by Omission versus Commission 125
The Decision to Use Ethically Ambiguous Tactics: A Model 126
Why Use Deceptive Tactics? Motives and Consequences 126
The Power Motive 126
Other Motives to Behave Unethically 128
The Consequences of Unethical Conduct 129
Explanations and Justifications 131
How Can Negotiators Deal with the Other Party’s Use of Deception? 133
Chapter Summary 137
Endnotes 137
Chapter 6
Perception, Cognition, and Emotion 139
Perception 140
Perception Defined 140
Perceptual Distortion 140
Framing 142
Types of Frames 143
How Frames Work in Negotiation 144
Another Approach to Frames: Interests, Rights, and Power 145
The Frame of an Issue Changes as the Negotiation Evolves 147
Cognitive Biases in Negotiation 150
1. Irrational Escalation of Commitment 151
2. Mythical Fixed-Pie Beliefs 151
3. Anchoring and Adjustment 152
4. Issue Framing and Risk 152
5. Availability of Information 153
6. The Winner’s Curse 153
7. Overconfidence 153
8. The Law of Small Numbers 154
9. Self-Serving Biases 154
10. Endowment Effect 155
11. Ignoring Others’ Cognitions 156
12. Reactive Devaluation 156
Managing Misperceptions and Cognitive Biases in Negotiation 156
Mood, Emotion, and Negotiation 157
Chapter Summary 163
Endnotes 163
Chapter 7
Communication 165
What Is Communicated during Negotiation? 165
1. Offers, Counteroffers, and Motives 166
2. Information about Alternatives 166
3. Information about Outcomes 167
4. Social Accounts 167
5. Communication about Process 167
Are Negotiators Consistent or Adaptive? 168
Does It Matter What Is Said Early in the Negotiation? 168
Is More Information Always Better? 168
How People Communicate in Negotiation 169
Characteristics of Language 169
Use of Nonverbal Communication 170
Selection of a Communication Channel 172
How to Improve Communication in Negotiation 174
The Use of Questions 174
Listening 176
Role Reversal 178
xiv Contents
Special Communication Considerations at the Close of Negotiations 179
Avoiding Fatal Mistakes 179
Achieving Closure 179
Chapter Summary 180
Endnotes 180
Chapter 8
Finding and Using Negotiation Power 182
Why Is Power Important to Negotiators? 182
A Definition of Power 183
Sources of Power—How People Acquire Power 185
Informational Sources of Power 186
Power Based on Personality and Individual Differences 188
Power Based on Position in an Organization (Structural Power) 190
Power Based on Relationships 196
Contextual Sources of Power 197
Dealing with Others Who Have More Power 199
Chapter Summary 201
Endnotes 201
Chapter 9
Relationships in Negotiation 203
Challenging How Relationships in Negotiation Have Been Studied 203
Negotiations in Communal Sharing Relationships 207
Key Elements in Managing Negotiations within Relationships 208
Reputation 208
Trust 210
Justice 213
Relationships among Reputation, Trust, and Justice 217
Repairing a Relationship 217
Chapter Summary 218
Endnotes 218
Chapter 10
Multiple Parties, Groups, and Teams in Negotiation 220
The Nature of Multiparty Negotiations 220
Differences between Two-Party Negotiations and Multiparty Negotiations 221
What Dynamics Can Make a Multiparty Negotiation Effective? 226
Managing Multiparty Negotiations 228
The Prenegotiation Stage 228
The Formal Negotiation Stage—Managing the Process and Outcome 231
The Agreement Stage 237
Chapter Summary 240
Endnotes 240
Chapter 11
International and Cross-Cultural Negotiation 242
What Makes International Negotiation Different? 244
Environmental Context 244
Immediate Context 247
Conceptualizing Culture and Negotiation 249
Culture as Learned Behavior 249
Culture as Shared Values 250
Culture as Dialectic 253
Culture in Context 253
The Influence of Culture on Negotiation: Managerial Perspectives 254
Definition of Negotiation 254
Contents xv
Negotiation Opportunity 254
Selection of Negotiators 255
Protocol 255
Communication 256
Time Sensitivity 256
Risk Propensity 257
Groups versus Individuals 257
Nature of Agreements 258
Emotionalism 258
The Influence of Culture on Negotiation: Research Perspectives 258
Effects of Culture on Negotiation Outcomes 259
Effects of Culture on Negotiation Process and Information Exchange 261
Effects of Culture on Negotiator Cognition 263
Effects of Culture on Negotiator Ethics and Tactics 264
Culturally Responsive Negotiation Strategies 265
Weiss’s Culturally Responsive Strategies 266
Low Familiarity 267
Moderate Familiarity 267
High Familiarity 268
Chapter Summary 269
Endnotes 269
Chapter 12
Best Practices in Negotiations 273
1. Be Prepared 273
2. Diagnose the Fundamental Structure of the Negotiation 274
3. Identify and Work the BATNA 275
4. Be Willing to Walk Away 276
5. Master the Key Paradoxes of Negotiation 276
Claiming Value versus Creating Value 276
Sticking by Your Principles versus Being Resilient Enough to Go with the Flow 277
Sticking with Your Strategy versus Opportunistically Pursuing New Options 277
Being Too Honest and Open versus Being Too Closed and Opaque 278
Being Too Trusting versus Being Too Distrusting 278
6. Remember the Intangibles 278
7. Actively Manage Coalitions—Those Against You, For You, and Unknown 280
8. Savor and Protect Your Reputation 281
9. Remember That Rationality and Fairness Are Relative 281
10. Continue to Learn from Your Experience 282
Endnotes 282
Bibliography 283 Index 307
1
The Nature of Negotiation
1
CHAPTER 1
Objectives
1. Understand the definition of negotiation, the key elements of a negotiation process, and the distinct types of negotiation.
2. Explore how people use negotiation to manage different situations of interdependence—that is, that they depend on each other for achieving their goals.
3. Consider how negotiation fits within the broader perspective of processes for managing conflict.
4. Gain an overview of the organization of this book and the content of its chapters.
“That’s it! I’ve had it! This car is dead!” screamed Chang Yang, pounding on the steering
wheel and kicking the door shut on his 10-year-old Toysun sedan. The car had refused to
start again, and Chang was going to be late for class (again)! Chang wasn’t doing well
in that management class, and he couldn’t afford to miss any more classes. Recognizing
that it was finally time to do something about the car, which had been having numerous
mechanical problems for the last three months, Chang decided he would trade the Toysun
in for another used car, one that would hopefully get him through graduation. After classes
that day, he got a ride to the nearby shopping area, where there were several repair garages
and used car lots. He knew almost nothing about cars, and didn’t think he needed to—all
he needed was reliable transportation to get him through the next 18 months.
A major international airline company is close to bankruptcy. The fear of terrorism,
a number of new “budget-fare” airlines, and rising costs for fuel have all put the airline
under massive economic pressure. The company seeks $800 million in wage and benefit
cuts from the pilots’ union, the third round of cuts in two years, in order to head off the
bankruptcy. Rebuffed by the chief union negotiator for the pilots, the company seeks to
go directly to the officers of the Air Line Pilots Association—the international union—to
discuss the cuts. If the pilots do not agree to concessions, it is unlikely that other unions—
flight attendants, mechanics, and so on—will agree, and bankruptcy will be inevitable.
Janet and Jocelyn are roommates. They share a one-bedroom apartment in a big city
where they are both working. Janet, an accountant, has a solid job with a good company,
but she has decided that it is time to go back to school to get her MBA. She has enrolled in
Big City University’s evening MBA program and is now taking classes. Jocelyn works for
an advertising company and is on the fast track. Her job not only requires a lot of travel,
2 Chapter 1 The Nature of Negotiation
but also requires a lot of time socializing with clients. The problem is that when Janet is
not in evening class, she needs the apartment to read and study and has to have quiet to get
her work done. However, when Jocelyn is at the apartment, she talks a lot on the phone,
brings friends home for dinner, and is either getting ready to go out for the evening or com-
ing back in very late (and noisily!). Janet has had enough of this disruption and is about to
confront Jocelyn.
A country’s government is in a financial crisis, created by a good old-fashioned
“smackdown” between the newly re-elected president and the legislature. The president
insists that taxes must be raised to pay for ongoing government services, particularly the
taxes of the richest 1 to 2 percent of the taxpayers. In contrast, a majority of the elected leg-
islature, whose political party favors the wealthy, insists that the president cut government
spending instead! Moreover, a group of the legislators have taken a public “pledge” to not
agree to any tax increases and fear losing their jobs in the next election if they give in on their pledge. If the crisis is not resolved in a few days, a financial doomsday is predicted.
Ashley Johnson is one of the most qualified recruits this year from a top-25 ranked
business school. She is delighted to have secured a second interview with a major con-
sumer goods company, which has invited her to its headquarters city and put her up in a
four-star hotel that is world-renowned for its quality facilities and service. After getting in
late the night before due to flight delays, she wakes at 6:45 a.m. to get ready for a 7:30 a.m.
breakfast meeting with the senior company recruiter. She steps in the shower, grabs the
water control knob to turn it, and the knob falls off in her hand! There is no water in the
shower at all; apparently, repairmen started a repair job on the shower, turned all the water
off somewhere, and left the job unfinished. Ashley panics at the thought of how she is going
to deal with this crisis and look good for her breakfast meeting in 45 minutes.
Do these incidents look and sound familiar? These are all examples of negotiation—
negotiations that are about to happen, are in the process of happening, or have happened
in the past and created consequences for the present. And they all serve as examples of the
problems, issues, and dynamics that we will address throughout this book.
People negotiate all the time. Friends negotiate to decide where to have dinner.
Children negotiate to decide which television program to watch. Businesses negotiate to
purchase materials and sell their products. Lawyers negotiate to settle legal claims before
they go to court. The police negotiate with terrorists to free hostages. Nations negotiate to
open their borders to free trade. Negotiation is not a process reserved only for the skilled
diplomat, top salesperson, or ardent advocate for an organized lobby; it is something that
everyone does, almost daily. Although the stakes are not usually as dramatic as peace ac-
cords or large corporate mergers, everyone negotiates; sometimes people negotiate for
major things like a new job, other times for relatively minor things like who will take out
the garbage.
Negotiations occur for several reasons: (1) to agree on how to share or divide a limited
resource, such as land, or money, or time; (2) to create something new that neither party
could do on his or her own; or (3) to resolve a problem or dispute between the parties.
Sometimes people fail to negotiate because they do not recognize that they are in a negotia-
tion situation. By choosing options other than negotiation, they may fail to achieve their
goals, get what they need, or manage their problems as smoothly as they might like to. Peo-
ple may also recognize the need for negotiation but do poorly because they misunderstand
A Few Words about Our Style and Approach 3
the process and do not have good negotiating skills. After reading this book, we hope you
will be thoroughly prepared to recognize negotiation situations; understand how negotia-
tion works; know how to plan, implement, and complete successful negotiations; and, most
importantly, be able to maximize your results.
A Few Words about Our Style and Approach
Before we begin to dissect the complex social process known as negotiation, we need to
say several things about how we will approach this subject. First we will briefly define
negotiation. Negotiation is “a form of decision making in which two or more parties talk
with one another in an effort to resolve their opposing interests.”1 Moreover, we will be
careful about how we use terminology in this book. For most people, bargaining and negotiation mean the same thing; however, we will be quite distinctive in the way we use the two words. We will use the term bargaining to describe the competitive, win–lose situations such as haggling over the price of that item that happens at a yard sale, flea
market, or used car lot; we will use the term negotiation to refer to win–win situations such as those that occur when parties are trying to find a mutually acceptable solution to
a complex conflict.
Second, many people assume that the “heart of negotiation” is the give-and-take pro-
cess used to reach an agreement. While that give-and-take process is extremely impor-
tant, negotiation is a very complex social process; many of the most important factors that
shape a negotiation result do not occur during the negotiation; they occur before the parties start to negotiate, or shape the context around the negotiation. In the first few chapters of the book, we will examine why people negotiate, the nature of negotiation as a tool for
managing conflict, and the primary give-and-take processes by which people try to reach
agreement. In the remaining chapters, we examine the many ways that differences in the
substantive issues, the people involved, the processes they follow, and the context in which
negotiation occurs enrich the complexity of the dynamics of negotiation. We will return to
a more complete overview of the book at the end of this chapter.
Third, our insights into negotiation are drawn from three sources. The first is our per-
sonal experience as negotiators ourselves and the rich number of negotiations that occur
every day in our own lives and in the lives of people around the world. The second source
is the media—television, radio, newspaper, magazine, and Internet—that report on actual
negotiations every day. We will use quotes and examples from the media to highlight
key points, insights, and applications throughout the book. Finally, the third source is the
wealth of social science research that has been conducted on numerous aspects of nego-
tiation. This research has been conducted for almost 60 years in the fields of economics,
psychology, political science, communication, labor relations, law, sociology, and anthro-
pology. Each discipline approaches negotiation differently. Like the parable of the blind
men who are attempting to describe the elephant by touching and feeling different parts
of the animal, each social science discipline has its own theory and methods for studying
outputs of negotiation, and each tends to emphasize some parts and ignore others. Thus,
the same negotiation events and outcome may be examined simultaneously from several
different perspectives.2 When standing alone, each perspective is clear but limited; com-
bined, we begin to understand the rich and complex dynamics of this amazing animal.
4 Chapter 1 The Nature of Negotiation
We draw from all these research traditions in our approach to negotiation. When we need
to acknowledge the authors of a major theory or set of research findings, we will use the
standard social science research process of citing their work in the text by the author’s
name and the date of publication of their work; complete references for that work can be
found in the bibliography at the end of the book. When we have multiple sources to cite,
or anecdotal side comments to make, that information will appear in an endnote at the end
of each chapter.
We began this chapter with several examples of negotiations—future, present, and
past. To further develop the reader’s understanding of the foundations of negotiation, we
will develop a story about a husband and wife—Joe and Sue Carter—and a not-so-atypical
day in their lives. In this day, they face the challenges of many major and minor negotia-
tions. We will then use that story to highlight three important themes:
1. The definition of negotiation and the basic characteristics of negotiation situations.
2. An understanding of interdependence, the relationship between people and groups that most often leads them to need to negotiate.
3. The definition and exploration of the dynamics of conflict and conflict management processes, which will serve as a backdrop for different ways that people approach
and manage negotiations.
Joe and Sue Carter
The day started early, as usual. Over breakfast, Sue Carter raised the question of where
she and her husband, Joe, would go for their summer vacation. She wanted to sign up for a
tour of Southeast Asia being sponsored by her college’s alumni association. However, two
weeks on a guided tour with a lot of other people he barely knew was not what Joe had in
mind. He needed to get away from people, crowds, and schedules, and he wanted to charter
a sailboat and cruise the New England coast. The Carters had not argued (yet), but it was
clear they had a real problem here. Some of their friends handled problems like this by tak-
ing separate vacations. With both of them working full-time, though, Joe and Sue did agree
that they would take their vacation together.
Moreover, they were still not sure whether their teenage children—Tracy and Ted—would
go with them. Tracy really wanted to go to a gymnastics camp, and Ted wanted to stay
home and do yard work in the neighborhood so he could get in shape for the football team
and buy a motor scooter with his earnings. Joe and Sue couldn’t afford summer camp and a
major vacation, let alone deal with the problem of who would keep an eye on the children
while they were away. And Sue was already “on the record” as being opposed to the motor
scooter, for obvious safety reasons.
As Joe drove to work, he thought about the vacation problem. What bothered Joe
most was that there did not seem to be a good way to manage the conflict productively.
With some family conflicts, they could compromise but, given what each wanted this time,
a simple compromise didn’t seem obvious. At other times they would flip a coin or take
turns—that might work for choosing a restaurant (Joe and Ted like steak houses, Sue and
Tracy prefer Chinese), but it seemed unwise in this case because of how much money was
involved and how important vacation time was to them. In addition, flipping a coin might
Joe and Sue Carter 5
make someone feel like a loser, an argument could start, and in the end nobody would re-
ally feel satisfied.
Walking through the parking lot, Joe met his company’s purchasing manager,
Ed Laine. Joe was the head of the engineering design group for MicroWatt, a manufacturer
of small electric motors. Ed reminded Joe that they had to settle a problem created by the en-
gineers in Joe’s department: the engineers were contacting vendors directly rather than going
through MicroWatt’s purchasing department. Joe knew that purchasing wanted all contacts
with a vendor to go through them, but he also knew that his engineers badly needed technical
information for design purposes and that waiting for the information to come through the
purchasing department slowed things considerably. Ed Laine was aware of Joe’s views about
this problem, and Joe thought the two of them could probably find some way to resolve it if
they really sat down to work on it. Joe and Ed were also both aware that upper management
expected middle managers to settle differences among themselves; if this problem “went
upstairs” to senior management, it would make both of them look bad.
Shortly after reaching his desk, Joe received a telephone call from an automobile
salesman with whom he had been talking about a new car. The salesman asked whether
Sue wanted to test-drive it. Joe wasn’t quite sure that Sue would go along with his choice;
Joe had picked out a sporty luxury import, and he expected Sue to say it was too expen-
sive and not very fuel efficient. Joe was pleased with the latest offer the salesman had
made on the price but thought he might still get a few more concessions out of him, so he
introduced Sue’s likely reluctance about the purchase, hoping that the resistance would
put pressure on the salesman to lower the price and make the deal “unbeatable.”
As soon as Joe hung up the phone, it rang again. It was Sue, calling to vent her frus-
tration to Joe over some of the procedures at the local bank where she worked as a senior
loan officer. Sue was frustrated working for an old “family-run” bank that was not very
automated, heavily bureaucratic, and slow to respond to customer needs. Competitor banks
were approving certain types of loans within three hours while Sue’s bank still took a week.
Sue had just lost landing two big new loans because of the bank’s slowness and bureaucratic
procedures—and the loss of the salary bonus that landing a big loan would bring. But when-
ever she tried to discuss the situation with the bank’s senior management, she was met with
resistance and a lecture on the importance of the bank’s “traditional values.”
Most of Joe’s afternoon was taken up by the annual MicroWatt budget planning
meeting. Joe hated these meetings. The people from the finance department came in and
arbitrarily cut everyone’s figures by 30 percent, and then all the managers had to argue
endlessly to try to get some of their new-project money reinstated. Joe had learned to
work with a lot of people, some of whom he did not like very much, but these people from
finance were the most arrogant and arbitrary number crunchers imaginable. He could not
understand why the top brass did not see how much harm these people were doing to the
engineering group’s research and development efforts. Joe considered himself a reasonable
guy, but the way these people acted made him feel like he had to draw the line and fight it
out for as long as it took.
In the evening, Sue and Joe attended a meeting of their town’s Conservation Commis-
sion, which, among other things, was charged with protecting the town’s streams, wetlands,
and nature preserves. Sue is a member of the Conservation Commission, and Sue and Joe
both strongly believe in sound environmental protection and management. This evening’s
6 Chapter 1 The Nature of Negotiation
case involved a request by a real estate development firm to drain a swampy area and move
a small creek into an underground pipe in order to build a new regional shopping mall. All
projections showed that the new shopping mall would attract jobs and revenue to the area
and considerably increase the town’s tax treasury. The new mall would keep more business
in the community and discourage people from driving 15 miles to the current mall, but
opponents—a coalition of local conservationists and businessmen—were concerned that
the new mall would significantly hurt the downtown business district and do major harm to
the natural wetland and its wildlife. The debate raged for three hours, and finally, the com-
mission agreed to continue the hearings the following week.
As Joe and Sue drove home from the council meeting, they discussed the things
they had been involved in that day. Each privately reflected that life is kind of strange—
sometimes things go very smoothly and other times things seem much too complicated.
As they went to sleep later, they each thought about how they might have approached
certain situations differently during the day and were thankful they had a relationship
where they could discuss things openly with each other. But they still didn’t know what
they were going to do about that vacation . . . or that motor scooter.
Characteristics of a Negotiation Situation
The Joe and Sue Carter story highlights the variety of situations that can be handled by
negotiation. Any of us might encounter one or more of these situations over the course of
a few days or weeks. As we defined earlier, negotiation is a process by which two or more parties attempt to resolve their opposing interests. Thus, as we will point out later on this
chapter, negotiation is one of several mechanisms by which people can resolve conflicts.
Negotiation situations have fundamentally the same characteristics, whether they are peace
negotiations between countries at war, business negotiations between buyer and seller or
labor and management, or an angry guest trying to figure out how to get a hot shower be-
fore a critical interview. Those who have written extensively about negotiation argue that
there are several characteristics common to all negotiation situations:3
1. There are two or more parties—that is, two or more individuals, groups, or organiza- tions. Although people can “negotiate” with themselves—as when someone debates
in their head whether to spend a Saturday afternoon studying, playing tennis, or going
to the football game—we consider negotiation as a process between individuals, within groups, and between groups.4 In the Carter story, Joe negotiates with his wife, the
purchasing manager, and the auto salesman, and Sue negotiates with her husband, the
senior management at the bank, and the Conservation Commission, among others.
Both still face an upcoming negotiation with the children about the vacation . . . and
that motor scooter.
2. There is a conflict of needs and desires between two or more parties—that is, what one wants is not necessarily what the other one wants—and the parties must
search for a way to resolve the conflict. Joe and Sue face negotiations over vacations,
management of their children, budgets, automobiles, company procedures, and
community practices for issuing building permits and preserving natural resources,
among others.
Characteristics of a Negotiation Situation 7
3. The parties negotiate by choice! That is, they negotiate because they think they can get a better deal by negotiating than by simply accepting what the other side will
voluntarily give them or let them have. Negotiation is largely a voluntary process. We
negotiate because we think we can improve our outcome or result, compared with not
negotiating or simply accepting what the other side offers. It is a strategy pursued by
choice; seldom are we required to negotiate. There are times to negotiate and times
not to negotiate (see Box 1.1 for examples of when we should not negotiate).
Our experience is that most individuals in Western culture do not negotiate enough— that is, we assume a price or situation is nonnegotiable and don’t even bother to ask
or to make a counteroffer!
BOX 1.1 When You Shouldn’t Negotiate There are times when you should avoid negoti-
ating. In these situations, stand your ground and
you’ll come out ahead.
When you’d lose the farm:
If you’re in a situation where you could lose
everything, choose other options rather
than negotiate.
When you’re sold out:
When you’re running at capacity, don’t deal.
Raise your prices instead.
When the demands are unethical:
Don’t negotiate if your counterpart asks
for something you cannot support be-
cause it’s illegal, unethical, or morally
inappropriate—for example, either paying
or accepting a bribe. When your character
or your reputation is compromised, you
lose in the long run.
When you don’t care:
If you have no stake in the outcome, don’t
negotiate. You have everything to lose
and nothing to gain.
When you don’t have time:
When you’re pressed for time, you may choose
not to negotiate. If the time pressure
works against you, you’ll make mistakes,
you give in too quickly, and you may fail
to consider the implications of your con-
cessions. When under the gun, you’ll set-
tle for less than you could otherwise get.
When they act in bad faith:
Stop the negotiation when your counterpart
shows signs of acting in bad faith. If
you can’t trust their negotiating, you
can’t trust their agreement. In this case,
negotiation is of little or no value. Stick
to your guns and cover your position, or
discredit them.
When waiting would improve your position:
Perhaps you’ll have a new technology
available soon. Maybe your financial
situation will improve. Another oppor-
tunity may present itself. If the odds are
good that you’ll gain ground with a
delay, wait.
When you’re not prepared:
If you don’t prepare, you’ll think of all your
best questions, responses, and conces-
sions on the way home. Gathering your
reconnaissance and rehearsing the nego-
tiation will pay off handsomely. If you’re
not ready, just say “no.”
Source: J. Conrad Levinson, Mark S. A. Smith, Orvel Ray Wilson, Guerrilla Negotiating: Unconventional Weapons and Tactics to Get What You Want (New York: John Wiley & Sons, Inc., 1999), pp. 22–23.
7
8 Chapter 1 The Nature of NegotiationSign in a New York Deli
“For those of you who need to haggle over the
price of your sandwich, we will gladly raise the
price so we can give you a discount!”
BOX 1.2
4. When we negotiate, we expect a “give-and-take” process that is fundamental to our understanding of the word “negotiation.” We expect that both sides will modify or
move away from their opening statements, requests, or demands. Although both
parties may at first argue strenuously for what they want—each pushing the other
side to move first—ultimately both sides will modify their opening position in
order to reach an agreement. This movement may be toward the “middle” of their
positions, called a compromise. However, truly creative negotiations may not
require compromise; instead the parties may invent a solution that meets the
objectives of all parties. Of course, if the parties do NOT consider it a negotiation, then they don’t necessarily expect to modify their position and engage in this
give-and-take (see Box 1.2).
5. The parties prefer to negotiate and search for agreement rather than to fight openly, have one side dominate and the other capitulate, permanently break off contact, or
take their dispute to a higher authority to resolve it. Negotiation occurs when the
parties prefer to invent their own solution for resolving the conflict, when there is no
fixed or established set of rules or procedures for how to resolve the conflict, or when
they choose to bypass those rules. Organizations and systems invent policies and
procedures for addressing and managing those procedures. Equipment rental services
have a policy for what they should charge if a rental is kept too long. Normally,
people just pay the fine. They might be able to negotiate a fee reduction, however, if
they have a good excuse for why the equipment is being returned late. Similarly,
attorneys negotiate or plea-bargain for their clients who would rather be assured of a
negotiated settlement than take their chances with a judge and jury in the courtroom.
Similarly, the courts may prefer to negotiate as well to clear the case off the docket,
save money and assure some payment of a fine rather than risk having the defendant
set free on some legal technicality. In the Carter story, Joe pursues negotiation, rather
than letting his wife decide where to spend the vacation; pressures the salesman to
reduce the price of the car, rather than paying the quoted price; and argues with the
finance group about the impact of the budget cuts, rather than simply accepting them
without question. Sue uses negotiation to try to change the bank’s loan review pro-
cedures, rather than accepting the status quo, and she works to change the shopping
mall site plan to make both conservationists and businesses happy, rather than letting
others decide it or watch it go to court. But what about that motor scooter . . . ?
6. Successful negotiation involves the management of tangibles (e.g., the price or the terms of agreement) and also the resolution of intangibles. Intangible factors are the underlying psychological motivations that may directly or indirectly influence
the parties during a negotiation. Some examples of intangibles are (a) the need to
“win,” beat the other party, or avoid losing to the other party; (b) the need to look
“good,” “competent,” or “tough” to the people you represent; (c) the need to defend
8
Characteristics of a Negotiation Situation 9
an important principle or precedent in a negotiation; and (d) the need to appear “fair,”
or “honorable” or to protect one’s reputation; or (e) the need to maintain a good re-
lationship with the other party after the negotiation is over, primarily by maintaining
trust and reducing uncertainty.5 Intangibles are often rooted in personal values and
emotions. Intangible factors can have an enormous influence on negotiation processes
and outcomes; it is almost impossible to ignore intangibles because they affect our
judgment about what is fair, or right, or appropriate in the resolution of the tangibles.
For example, Joe may not want to make Ed Laine angry about the purchasing prob-
lem because he needs Ed’s support in the upcoming budget negotiations, but Joe also
doesn’t want to look weak to his department’s engineers, who expect him to support
them. Thus, for Joe, the important intangibles are preserving his relationship with Ed
Laine and looking strong and “tough” to his engineers.