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How Mastering "Small Talk" Can Transform Your Conversations and Create Serious Attraction When You're talking to WomenHere is my take: A woman wants to know that she can have fun with you talking about nothing. She does not want to feel that when "Gary Null" talk ends... you'll both be bored senseless. She wants to know that things won't get weird, because you're a fun guy.And small talk is where you get to demonstrate all of these things a woman is looking for.It’s the way the "small talk" is presented that makes all the difference. Say something one way, and you bore her brains out.How you Say It MattersBy saying something in a slightly different way, you can transmute your value from very low...to very HIGH.What do I mean by this?I mean that over the course of a conversation certain information needs to get passed back and forth between you and the woman you are talking to.This is just the natural flow of a conversation...What was MY conversation missing?Or you can learn how to turn you entire conversation, small talk and all... into something that is fun, playful, and sexy...There are a handful of ways to turn small talk sexy, and I am personally FASCINATED with finding these techniques, methods, and opportunities.Let me share a few of my favorite ways to do this that I discovered.SexualityThe second question is:Why didn't I realize this?I didn't realize this because I had achieved massive RAPPORT with the girl. We had connected on a topic so well that conversation was literally pouring out of our mouths...My three biggest fears in conversations with women had always been:1. Running out of things to talk about2. Awkward silences3. Resorting to "boring" small talkSo the mere fact that I had avoided all three of these outcomes led me to believe that I was achieving some level of success with this girl.The #1 Mistake Men Make that Prevent a Conversation From Turning SexualThe number one mistake men make that prevents them adding sexuality to theirconversation is....oFEAR OF BREAKING RAPPORTAnd why do we fear breaking rapport?Because we confuse rapport with attraction...oAnd they are NOT the same thing...Here's How To Use This Information to Turn a Conversation Sexual Right Now...Next time you're smack in the middle of a conversation with a woman you're attracted to, stop for a moment and consider why you're talking to her.You are talking to her because you HOPE that you can TALK her into becoming attracted to you in a SEXUAL way...And you can... But in order to do this... you've got to...
Burn Your Ship And Leave No Avenue For Retreat...This means that if your INTENTION is to create sexual attraction in a woman you have to PASS THE POINT OF NO RETURN.oYou have to be willing to lose her...FAILED miserably with the girl in the story earlier because I was not willing to lose the rapport we had established...o...but what I should have established was a SEXUAL INTENT...The first thing you need to do this is to BREAK RAPPORTwhen you sense that a woman is gettingtoo comfortable around you...Sexual tension stems from desire mixed with uncertainty, suspense, and even a bit of nervousness...If you're in the middleof an hour long conversation with a girl about health food (or the Yankees, or traveling, or your jobs)... there is no tension, no uncertainty, no suspense...Yes, there is comfort and rapport... But you've got to BREAK IT...So for instance,if a girl has gotten too if a girl has gotten too comfortable with you and she begins going into a long rant about how much she hates her job...Stop her and say:“If we keep talking about this I’m going to charge you 200$ an hour for therapy. Do you have your credit card with you?”By doing that you've broken rapport for a minute and thrown some suspense back into the conversation... and you've snapped her "he's such a nice guy..." thoughts in half.You'll often run into this problem later in the night when you want to get physical withawoman...and have built up too much comfort over the course of the evening... and now it seems the tension is broken... and a kiss seems inappropriate...Break the rapport...Adam Lyons once told me a story where he had a girl back at his place and shewouldn't stop talking about an argument she had with one of her friends.... He wassitting there thinking "how the hell can I get her to shut up long enough to kiss her..."And he KICKED HER IN THE HEAD.oI've done similar things... oIf I sense that a woman has become too comfortable and Ican't transition the conversation to something more sexual...oI'll look at her and say, "Don't you EVER shut up?"She'll usually look at me like I've just lost my mind...But the TENSION GOES THROUGH the roof.... And rapport is broken... Andfrom there I'll give her a little smile... Thenlightly push her a flirty way... Andsay "OH...Did I piss you off..."oAnd now we are FLIRTING.How to Avoid this in the First PlaceWe've already established earlier in this report that your INTENTION is to create a sexual attraction w/herSo let her know your intention...If you don't want a woman to get too comfortable with you... and begin just see you asa fun guy to talk to....oDon't give her that option...LET YOUR INTENTION BE KNOWN...When I was talking to "Gary Null" girl I never said anything to hint that I saw her as anything more than a girl with a similar interest in health food.